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2021.09.18 11:46 FightLikeABlue Homophobia is 'just an opinion' and OP should respect it
Not the OP, but some of the replies: https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4351468-Accepting-DSDad-s-religious-beliefs
Niffler92 Fri 17-Sep-21 11:12:06
My step dad has always been a believer and attended church. His last church was lovely and open, all guitars and clapping. He’s started going to a new church who are homophobic as a gay person I find this hard, they campaign against equal marriage, adoption for gay people, gay families and education about gay issues in schools. This is very hard for me as a gay person who campaigned for these rights, he also has niece who has a baby with her wife.
They also are anti choice and anti sex and babies out of marriage. Oh and preach about having as many babies as ‘god gives you’. In his previous church I always said my DD could go if she wanted to, now it’d be a cold day in hell before I left her go to THAT church!
My mum condones and excuses what they preach by saying he doesn’t understand that that’s what they believe.
How do I reconcile my own beliefs with what his church preaches?
Balonzette Fri 17-Sep-21 11:15:53
Do you need to? Can you not respect one another's beliefs and agree to disagree and simply not discuss the issue? I know everyone hates Christians these days, but your stepfather has as much a right to his beliefs as anyone else. If you don't like it then don't have a relationship with him?
I get a lot of Mumsnet is down on Christianity/Islam/religion in general, but being a gay person who's upset about a family member being involved with a homophobic church is not 'hating Christians'.
HarrietsChariot Fri 17-Sep-21 11:23:13
I think you need to accept that people are allowed to hold views that you disagree with or potentially find offensive. I have strong views on various "controversial" topics (eg the death penalty and firearms) but I'm happy to hear other peoples' points of view, provided they are reasonably polite and preferably have thought about why they have them.
It's how society works, no two people think exactly the same on every issue. Our society allows for freedom of thought, if not freedom of action.
Your case makes a good example. A few decades ago you would have been the "controversial" one in supporting gay marriage, gay adoption and gay rights in general. Many, perhaps most, people would have found your point of view ludicrous and offensive. But people were allowed to campaign and were allowed to hold the views you hold now, even when homosexuality was illegal. (It didn't get decriminalised because nobody wanted it to be, the law changed because people demanded it.)
What's happening with your DSD is simply the opposite, a person whose beliefs are out of step with the majority of people of the day. It's no more wrong for him to have his views than it is for you to have yours, provided that everyone acts within the boundaries of law. Law restricts actions, not beliefs.
If law could restrict thoughts then we'd be in a very dark place indeed. Live and let live, would be my advice. You don't have to agree with someone on every issue to get on with them.
Homosexuality is not compatible with Christianity though. Although some churches might not be vocal against it- the whole belief system starts from a premise of belief in God, our creator who designed men and women with specific purposes. If you dont believe in God you wont be able to understand your stepdads beliefs. The reason why homosexuality is wrong from a religious perspective is it undermines the male and female roles according to God's design. It undermines the union of husband and wife which Christians believe to be sacred. Christians believe fathers and mothers are required to make a family. Its not as simple as why cant a woman love a woman. Maybe they can but two women cant produce a child naturally and some would argue cant replace a father and a mother in a family unit.
Bitofachinwag Fri 17-Sep-21 22:07:00
nice people with hateful beliefs? How are his beliefs examples of hate? Having an opinion you don't agree with doesn"t make it hate.
I wonder if, if the stepdad belonged to a church that said women were good for nothing but breeding stock and should be controlled by men, people on MN would be so quick to go 'but it's just his opinion, stop being so mean'. I'm bi myself, I don't see why I should respect people who think I'm subhuman scum for not solely being into men.
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i heard that DX12 was better for low spec config, does that mean that vulkan is better with high spec?
or does there is not a "lot" of diff between them ?
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